Category Archives: ponderings

The allure of the unobtainable

They always say that if you stop looking for something, you’ll find it. Lost your keys? Stop looking for them and, all of sudden, there they’ll be, right where you always leave them. (or, in my case, a couple of … Continue reading

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Do women think too much?

Now, before you all scream “yes” at your computer screens without reading another word, wait. I’d like to think through the issue. (heehee, see what I did there?) In a week where I found out that four of my friends … Continue reading

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A close call II

You may remember, way back when, I wrote a post exploring my feelings about an announcement made via Facebook pertaining to N’s marital status? Well, on arriving home this evening, what do I find in the postbox but an invite. … Continue reading

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Cheating hearts

I’m sure we’ve all been told, since we were wee bairns on our mother’s hip, that cheating is wrong. It’s not something one does. It’s against the rules. Cheating has a number of guises. Everything from cheating on exams to … Continue reading

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The mystery of men

There’s a lot of it going around at the moment. Confusion that is. About men. Oh, I know, women are supposed to be the complicated ones, we’re the ones who are sooooo difficult to understand, to please, to placate. But … Continue reading

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The case of the missing crush

The crush and I used to speak every day – either through text, email, phone calls or, the expat’s friend – Skype (username: nuttycow by the way). It was stable, sure and reliable. I knew I’d wake up in the morning … Continue reading

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Pass the zimmerframe

The tragedy of old age is not that one is old, but that one is young – Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Grey (1891) I’ve been thinking a lot about getting old recently. I’ve been thinking about my parents … Continue reading

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Tour-n

Long term readers will know I have a bit of a thing for rugby. I watch it. I talk about it (in a kind of “I don’t really know what I’m talking about but if I just talk about how … Continue reading

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Guilt trip

I’ve managed to guilt myself into writing something, anything down in this sad, neglected corner of cyberspace. Having come back from my holiday (which was fab, thanks) a relaxed, slightly pink tinged, generally chilled out woman, I’m now slowly submerging … Continue reading

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If I had a million dollars

Unlike the Barenaked Ladies I probably wouldn’t buy a green dress. Or a monkey for that matter. With the recession biting, Christmas on the horizon and all the talk on the news today about the Euromillions winners, people up and … Continue reading

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