Looking back, I can’t believe it’s been a year since my life changed. And now, in 2010, my life is changing once more. For the better.
I thought, for the anniversary, I’d re-read my posts from that time and remember how lucky I am to be out of it.
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Ugh. I remember it all. How do you feel now? Obviously positive and upbeat and looking forward to the future, but about him – how do you feel?
About him? Nothing.
I talk to him occassionally, small, chatty talk. Nothing too deep.
Do I miss him? I miss his company sometimes and miss the fun but, we all know my new life is much better for me!
I wish I was a year on!
You’ll get there. It takes time and it’s horrible while it happens but you’ll have that moment and will start climbing that hill again.
Phew! Well done Nuttster.
With a little help from my friends…
Gosh, onwards and upwards, hey? Glad things are going in the right direction for you…
It’s a relief this end too, believe me!
Like the new cow!
I thought she looked slightly more swiss.
I can’t believe its been a year either! It certainly doesn’t seem that long.
I think its wise to remind yourself of the bad times though – I think sometimes after a relationship ends we sugarcoat the truth and remember only the good – in this case having these all-too-honest blog entries to look back over can only help remind you of why you did the right thing.
*Hugs*
Thanks Paula – I think you’re right. If you don’t have the bad times (and don’t remind yourself of the bad times) then you’ll never fully appreciate the good.
*hugs*
Right back atcha!
Whenever I look back on things like this, I’m always moved by how the healing process does work out. It’s good to have perspective once you have healed — and something to remember the next time something bad happens.
Good luck on your new adventure!
Thanks
Once I’m more settled I’ll get around to visiting your blog and having a good ol’ catch up!
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Oh my god. The similarities. The similarities. I had no idea you went through this. You are strong and brave and all around awesome. I’m so proud of you.
As we are proud of you. It’s good to see that we’ve both moved onwards and upwards.
And that the experiences haven’t put us off men completely!
I remember reading this at the time but didn’t feel I could comment as a recent reader. I’m amazing impressed by your strength too, not just in leaving but in your honesty.
You’ll be amazing in your new role, I know that you’ve mentioned you’re not sure if you’ll keep writing here – I hope you do, I also hope that one day we can go out for a beer and swap rugby stories.
Kerry – thank you… that’s very kind.
Would love to catch up for a beer! If you’re ever in central Europe…?
I think I’ve kind of come to the decision that I will continue blogging – I know I’ll miss it too much if I stop.
I get to alsorts of places, so will let you know
About him? Nothing. I talk to him occassionally, small, chatty talk. Nothing too deep. Do I miss him? I miss his company sometimes and miss the fun but, we all know my new life is much better for me!
OK, I know I’m a big girl’s blouse and obviously have an emotional soft spot at the moment, but I nearly blubbed at those words.
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You can’t stop blogging, because I’m just about to blogroll you back here on ‘Livvy’s Life’! Just dropped by to check your blog address is right and working and whatnot… Sounds like you have lived through many changes in recent times and about to live another one. Huge luck and love for that – you know, it’s all ‘grist to the mill’, as my mother would say – meaning that no experience is ever wasted. Wisdom is a wonderful thing!
Livvy
Wow, have just read over your posts. That sounds like a horrible horrible item and you are one awe inspiring woman for moving on and not letting it all beat you!
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