Comments on: Abusing the internet http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/ A nutty cow starts a new life abroad Fri, 27 Jan 2012 01:19:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: A year on « Parlez-vous moo? http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1576 A year on « Parlez-vous moo? Sun, 14 Feb 2010 10:14:22 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1576 [...] Getting there [...] [...] Getting there [...]

]]> By: Taking the plunge « Parlez-vous moo? http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1575 Taking the plunge « Parlez-vous moo? Tue, 19 May 2009 09:29:43 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1575 [...] only so much moping around one can do on a Saturday night. I’ve complained endlessly about how lonely I’ve been and so now I’ve decided to actually do something about [...] [...] only so much moping around one can do on a Saturday night. I’ve complained endlessly about how lonely I’ve been and so now I’ve decided to actually do something about [...]

]]> By: Brennig http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1574 Brennig Mon, 06 Apr 2009 10:17:52 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1574 Sigh. It really isn't easy, is it? The getting better happens so awfully slowly, the degrees of improvement are so tiny that on a day-to-day basis they appear almost imperceptible. I'd share my secret with you if I thought it would help? Not sure it would though. :) Sigh. It really isn’t easy, is it? The getting better happens so awfully slowly, the degrees of improvement are so tiny that on a day-to-day basis they appear almost imperceptible.

I’d share my secret with you if I thought it would help? Not sure it would though. :)

]]> By: nuttycow http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1573 nuttycow Tue, 17 Mar 2009 13:13:13 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1573 Magnumlady - thank you. Magnumlady – thank you.

]]> By: magnumlady http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1572 magnumlady Wed, 11 Mar 2009 19:14:03 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1572 Poor thing, I hope you feel better soon. Some people are in a relationship and still feel lonely. As the others said take time for yourself, be kind to yourself and just imagine what good things are in your future. Poor thing, I hope you feel better soon.
Some people are in a relationship and still feel lonely.
As the others said take time for yourself, be kind to yourself and just imagine what good things are in your future.

]]> By: nuttycow http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1571 nuttycow Wed, 11 Mar 2009 16:31:26 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1571 UB: Don't think I'm quite up to having a new boyfriend just yet. A sneaky snog in a couple of months might be nice though ;) Pinkjellybaby: I'm trying to get out but during the week I'm so knackered I just want to collapse into bed. Mud: I try not to listen to my own mind... it normally talks rubbish! D: Thank you. (and great post) Rosiero: You're right, I know you're right. It just sucks at the moment. But it will get better, I know this. Smidge: I think that's it. I haven't been well recently and all I could think about last night was how much I wanted him there to make it all better! Jo: Good idea. Might make it into a post sometime in the future. LiLu: Hug received and appreciated. Philip: One day. When I have the time and money :) you'll be the first to know. Rose: I'm trying, I'm trying (some people would say "very trying"!) Expat Mum: I know WOT: 4 years. And I try not to give myself too hard a time but I have an outside persona I have to portray :D EM: Thank you. And yes, they will get longer. They're quite short bursts at the moment but I look forward to those longer times. UB: Don’t think I’m quite up to having a new boyfriend just yet. A sneaky snog in a couple of months might be nice though ;)

Pinkjellybaby: I’m trying to get out but during the week I’m so knackered I just want to collapse into bed.

Mud: I try not to listen to my own mind… it normally talks rubbish!

D: Thank you. (and great post)

Rosiero: You’re right, I know you’re right. It just sucks at the moment. But it will get better, I know this.

Smidge: I think that’s it. I haven’t been well recently and all I could think about last night was how much I wanted him there to make it all better!

Jo: Good idea. Might make it into a post sometime in the future.

LiLu: Hug received and appreciated.

Philip: One day. When I have the time and money :) you’ll be the first to know.

Rose: I’m trying, I’m trying (some people would say “very trying”!)

Expat Mum: I know

WOT: 4 years. And I try not to give myself too hard a time but I have an outside persona I have to portray :D

EM: Thank you. And yes, they will get longer. They’re quite short bursts at the moment but I look forward to those longer times.

]]> By: English Mum http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1570 English Mum Wed, 11 Mar 2009 16:04:27 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1570 Ah, I think it's all been said already, but be kind to yourself, give yourself time and lean on your friends and the people that care about you. I particularly like what Womble said about the 'I feel fine' moments becoming imperceptibly longer. Chin up, petal x Ah, I think it’s all been said already, but be kind to yourself, give yourself time and lean on your friends and the people that care about you. I particularly like what Womble said about the ‘I feel fine’ moments becoming imperceptibly longer.

Chin up, petal x

]]> By: Womble On Tour http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1569 Womble On Tour Wed, 11 Mar 2009 13:12:30 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1569 Reality check, Honey. Three weeks is sod all as time before which you can "start to live my life again". How long were going out with him for ? Years ? Habits and thoughts so ingrained do not die easily. I've never preached to you before but please, please don't give yourself a hard time because you don't feel "right" again yet. It will happen, slowly. Gradually. Sometimes without you even noticing it. The "I don’t feel fine"s will be shorter, the " I feel fine"s longer. Yeah, keeping busy probably helps, exercise and all that stuff, but this is no gentle, linear-progression journey that you're on; some of the hours ahead will feel crap. Keep the faith that they'll pass and that you can come out the other side because they will and you can. And do keep talking. Love you ** E-HUG ** Reality check, Honey. Three weeks is sod all as time before which you can “start to live my life again”. How long were going out with him for ? Years ? Habits and thoughts so ingrained do not die easily. I’ve never preached to you before but please, please don’t give yourself a hard time because you don’t feel “right” again yet. It will happen, slowly. Gradually. Sometimes without you even noticing it. The “I don’t feel fine”s will be shorter, the ” I feel fine”s longer.
Yeah, keeping busy probably helps, exercise and all that stuff, but this is no gentle, linear-progression journey that you’re on; some of the hours ahead will feel crap. Keep the faith that they’ll pass and that you can come out the other side because they will and you can. And do keep talking.

Love you
** E-HUG **

]]> By: Expat Mum http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1568 Expat Mum Wed, 11 Mar 2009 03:09:30 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1568 Just time. Just time.

]]> By: roseski http://parlezvousmoo.com/2009/03/09/abusing-the-interne/#comment-1567 roseski Tue, 10 Mar 2009 13:55:54 +0000 http://parlezvousmoo.com/?p=627#comment-1567 Stop being alone... You said you have friends, and family, and you're not <i>really</i> alone, so go and find them! When I was depressed here, I was upset that this "best friend" of mine had ditched me for her new boyfriend. It wasn't until I realised there were so many other people for me to spend time with that I got out of my slump. Feel better lovely xx Stop being alone… You said you have friends, and family, and you’re not really alone, so go and find them!
When I was depressed here, I was upset that this “best friend” of mine had ditched me for her new boyfriend. It wasn’t until I realised there were so many other people for me to spend time with that I got out of my slump.

Feel better lovely xx

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